Welcome to Three Kids and a Cat. A real life, real love, real survival story.
If you’re new here, welcome. I’m glad you found your way. Although the past five years have been one of the most difficult periods for my family for so many reasons, the past year had finally brought some breakthroughs. I was working full time in a job that allowed me to explore and discover new possibilities, whilst making a difference supporting people on their own journey. After leaving my long-term corporate career, it allowed me to be on hand and give daily support to my niece and nephew. We were finally at a point where they were growing and wouldn’t need me as much. I dreamed about a future where things were easier, where we could begin to heal, where new memories were made and I could be just auntie again.
Then in March 2025, everything changed.
The unexpected journey
When sudden loss took the kids dad and my little sister, overnight I became the person holding it all together for three children and a cat. Not because I was ready. But because they needed me, and love doesn’t really ask for permission. So here I am. Still figuring it out. Still grieving.
What this blog is about
This space is real life. Not the polished version, but honest and raw. I write about what led us here grief, trauma, and how it sneaks into ordinary moments. Raising and guiding my sister’s kids, all with different needs, different personalities, all at different stages of life. Fighting for their home, all while working full time and surviving everything else. The guilt, the PTSD, the laughter, the exhaustion, the tiny wins.
Honest, real, and raw
Some days this blog is heavy. Some days it’s funny. Most days it’s just honest. There are no expert opinions here – just my experiences, lessons learned, and the raw, unedited journey of navigating life with 3 kids and a cat. I hope you find connection and solace here.
You're not alone in this journey.
Whether you've faced sudden changes, are navigating unexpected family dynamics, or simply seeking an honest voice, know that there's a space for you here at 3 kids and a cat. Let's connect and share our stories.